I have a Netgear router and it wasn't playing nice with Quake 2, in most servers. The solution was to enable QoS, get rid of all the default rules, and make Quake 2 the highest priority on the router. Was able to play railz for an hour with zero disconnects, whereas previously it would take about 10-12 minutes (about a match and a half) to get disconnected. I'm going to post this in the OP as well for any future people who have this same problem.
after about a match and a half we'll /both/ get forcibly disconnected. i thought it might have been something with our configs, or something in the router- but i've extensively exhausted all possibilities and came here to explore if it was a common occurrence.
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i might have worded that incorrectly and maybe you misunderstood. i didn't mean "both" at the exact same time, just that we both run into those conditions from which we get disconnected. (after for playing for a match or so we get DCed)
Quote from: boxes on May 18, 2017, 09:29:59 AMi might have worded that incorrectly and maybe you misunderstood. i didn't mean "both" at the exact same time, just that we both run into those conditions from which we get disconnected. (after for playing for a match or so we get DCed)snip