But not anyone can deal with the same persons bullshit for the rest of their lives and make a personal commitment to stick with it and then follow through with that commitment. Sure, shit happens sometimes. And I guess it doesn't surprise me at all that as many people are getting divorced. I don't think most human beings have the invaluable ability to remain loyal to others. I don't think most human beings have the ability to objectively look at themselves and recognize their character flaws and true emotions because it would mean that they'd have to realize that they aren't the best at what they do, that they aren't the "good" person they think they are, and that they need to make changes. Humans have a fear of being seen as incompetent by others, and probably by themselves too. This is why, like I always say, humans as a species are usually incapable of change.