Wabbit is absolutely correct about UDP - packet loss is the trade-off for the high connection speed.
Routers make a best-effort attempt to deliver packets.
Wired or wireless to the router? If wireless, use a wired connection. Wireless frames can interfere with each other and cause dropped frames.On the Internet, UDP frames get dropped, it's expected.
frame Also called a packet. A package of information transmitted as a single unit over a network. Every frame follows the same basic organization and contains control information, such as synchronizing characters, station address, an error-checking value, and a variable amount of data. packet See frame.